New York Times Op-Ed: My Hope for American Discourse, by Tish Harrison Warren (Priest, Anglican Church; Author, Prayer in the Night: For Those Who Work or Watch or Weep (2021) (Christianity Today’s 2022 Book of the Year)):
[w[W]ith this final newsletter at The Times, I want to say thank you and goodbye — to talk about what this job has meant to me and why I am leaving. And yes, OK, this may be a little self-indulgent — like my overly long farewells with my children — but I feel it is worth sharing in part because some of my reasons for leaving, while personal, touch on larger themes of faith in private life and public discourse that have featured in this newsletter and that all of us experience in one way or another. …
[I]t was a tough decision to leave. And as with any tough decision, my reasons are varied and complex, but one is that writing publicly about God each week can do a number on one’s soul. Thomas Wingfold, a character in a novel by the Scottish minister and poet George MacDonald, said, “Nothing is so deadening to the divine as an habitual dealing with the outsides of holy things.” Holy things, sacred topics, spiritual ideas, I believe, have power. Dealing with them is a privilege and a joy, but habitually dealing with the outside of them is inherently dangerous.
The “outsides” of holy things, to me, describes the difference between speaking about divine or sacred things and encountering the divine or the sacred directly. To be sure, we need more and better religious discourse in America. In my very first newsletter for The Times, I wrote that “we need to start talking about God,” and I still believe that. I believe that religion and, more broadly, the biggest questions in life are the driving forces behind much that is beautiful, divisive, unifying, controversial and perplexing about our culture and society.
Yet there is danger in becoming a pundit, particularly on matters of faith and spirituality. It can be deadening. I plan to continue to write about faith, to explore its impact on politics, study it sociologically, think about its metaphors and claims of truth. But for any person of faith, public engagement must be balanced with times of withdrawal, of silence, prayer, questioning and wonder beyond the reach of words. Otherwise, faith with all its strange and startling topology becomes a flat and sterile thing, something to be dissected, instead of embraced. And typically once something is fit only for dissection, it is dead. I bring this up because it is a temptation for all of us now. Social media and digital technology have made us all pundits. We are faced with a constant choice: Every experience, belief, feeling and thought we have can be shared publicly or not. In a single day, we can take in more information and ideas than was ever possible, yet at the end of the day we can still lack wisdom.
Constant connectivity empties us out, as individuals and as a society, making us shallower thinkers and more impatient with others. When it comes to faith, it can yield a habitual dealing with the outsides of holy things, fostering an avoidance of those internal parts of life that are most difficult, things like prayer, uncertainty, humility and the nakedness of who we most truly are amid this confusing, heartbreaking and incandescently beautiful world.
There is … a tendency in our moment to prioritize the distant over the proximate and the big over the small. We can seek to have all the right political opinions and still not really love our actual neighbors, those right around us, in our homes, in our workplaces or on our blocks.
The former senator Ben Sasse wrote, “When we prioritize ‘news’ from afar, we’re saying that our distant-but-shallow communities are more important than our small-but-deep flesh-and-blood ones.” In our time of digitization and rapid information, our temptation is what the philosopher Charles Taylor called “excarnation” — the opposite of “incarnation,” it makes our life into an abstraction.
We become like Linus in the old “Peanuts” cartoons who famously said: “I love mankind. It’s people I can’t stand.” True community, however, is made of real people with names, of friends with true faults, of congregations with faces, of the local, the small. Don’t get me wrong: Global and national news is important and I will continue to read news and opinion pieces nearly every day. But for me, as for most of us, the places we meet God — the places we become human — are not primarily in abstract debates about culture wars or the role of religion in society, but in worship on a Sunday morning or in dropping off soup for a grieving friend, in a vulnerable conversation or in making breakfast at the homeless shelter down the street, in celebration with a neighbor or in the drowsy prayers uttered while rocking a feverish toddler in the middle of the night.
The way to battle abstraction in our time is to embrace the material, the incarnation of our lives, the fleshy, complicated, touchable realities right around us in our neighborhoods, churches, friends and families. And this enfleshed, incarnational part of my life and work deserves some extra attention now, at least for a little while.
So, finally, if you’d indulge me a little more, in Anglican liturgy, we wind up our worship service each week with a departure ritual: a closing benediction. So, I want to say to my readers, to those who’ve written and told me about your lives, to those who’ve enthusiastically encouraged me or shared my work with others, to those who’ve disagreed with me respectfully, to those who have disagreed with me less respectfully, to those who are struggling and those who are rejoicing, to those who are afraid or those who are encouraged, to those full of faith and those full of doubt and those full of both at the same time: God bless and keep you. You have been a gift to me and I am grateful for each of you.
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Other New York Times op-eds by Tish Harrison Warren:
- Losing Our Religion: An Altar Call For Evangelical America (Aug. 6, 2023)
- ‘Why Does God Keep Making Poets?’ (July 23, 2023)
- Sabbaticals Shouldn’t Be Just For Professors And Clergy (July 9, 2023)
- ‘You Can’t Protect Some Life And Not Others’ (June 25, 2023)
- The Role Of Technology In Our Lives (June 4, 2023)
- Tim Keller Showed Me What A Christian Leader Should Be (June 4, 2023)
- An Apology for Saying ‘Sorry’ (May 14, 2023)
- Ted Lasso, Holy Fool (May 7, 2023)
- Praying With Our Eyes Open To See God And The Glory Of His Creation (Apr. 23, 2023)
- Did Jesus Really Rise From The Dead On Easter? (Apr. 16, 2023)
- He’s Not Jesus, But He Plays Him On TV In The Chosen (Apr. 9, 2023)
- Dogs, God, And Love (Mar. 26, 2023)
- The Real Problem With The ‘He Gets Us’ Ads (Mar. 19, 2023)
- The Wages Of Idolatry (Mar. 5, 2023)
- The Astonishing Moral Beauty Of The Rev. Fred Shuttlesworth And The Black Church (Feb. 12, 2023)
- Did You Have A Hard Christmas? Jesus Did, Too. (Dec. 26, 2022)
- Advent, Poetry, And Christmas (Dec. 18, 2022)
- 303 Creative, Gay Rights, And Religious Freedom (Dec. 11, 2022)
- Shopping And Isaiah 6:5 (Dec. 4, 2022)
- Even Your Political Enemies Deserve A Slice Of Thanksgiving Pie (Nov. 24, 2022)
- Black, Christian And Transcending The Political Binary (Nov. 6, 2022)
- How To Keep The Sabbath And Fight Back Against The Inhumanity Of Modern Work (Oct. 30, 2022)
- Why Religious Freedom Matters, Even If You’re Not Religious (Oct. 16, 2022)
- Why The Christian Music Of Rich Mullins Endures, 25 Years After His Death (Oct. 9, 2022)
- The God I Know Is Not A Culture Warrior (Aug. 21, 2022)
- A Model For An Evangelical Christianity Committed To Justice (Aug. 14, 2022)
- Do Christians Have A Moral Duty To Tweet? (July 17, 2022)
- How Churches Can Do Better At Responding To Sexual Abuse (July 3, 2022)
- Dobbs, Roe and the Myth of ‘Bodily Autonomy’ (June 26, 2022)
- I Married The Wrong Person, And I’m So Glad I Did (June 26, 2022)
- Uvalde Needs Our Prayers (June 12, 2022)
- Curing The Political Polarization Destroying America With Humility And Joy (May 29, 2022)
- We’re In A Loneliness Crisis: Another Reason To Get Off Our Phones (May 22, 2022)
- How To Cultivate Joy Even When It Feels In Short Supply (May 8, 2022)
- Tim Keller: How A Cancer Diagnosis Makes Jesus’ Death And Resurrection Mean More (Apr. 17, 2022)
- Three Habits To Keep After The Pandemic Ends (Apr. 3, 2022)
- We’re All Sinners, And Accepting That Is Actually A Good Thing (Mar. 13, 2022)
- Ash Wednesday Forces Us To Confront Death, But It Also Offers Hope (Mar. 6, 2022)
- Grief And Covid Stole My Love Of Reading. Here’s How I Got It Back. (Feb. 27, 2022)
- How Faith Communities Can Respond To The Opiod Crisis (Feb. 20, 2022)
- Why Churches Should Drop Their Online Services (Feb. 6, 2022)
- 10 New Year’s Resolutions That Are Good For The Soul (Jan. 9, 2022)
- What Mary Can Teach Us About The Joy And Pain Of Life (Dec. 19, 2021)
- I’m Not Ready For Christmas (Dec. 12, 2021)
- Thanksgiving, Gratitude, And The Shocking Privilege Of Life (Nov. 26, 2021)
- What I Believe About Life After Death (Oct. 24, 2021)
- Why We Need To Start Talking About God (Aug. 29, 2021)
- Why You Should Give Your Money Away Today (Dec. 22, 2019)
- Want To Get Into The Christmas Spirit? Face The Darkness (Dec. 22, 2019)
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